{"id":892,"date":"2013-01-02T03:04:15","date_gmt":"2013-01-02T07:04:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/?p=892"},"modified":"2017-10-18T12:13:14","modified_gmt":"2017-10-18T16:13:14","slug":"not-yes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/?p=892","title":{"rendered":"Latest blog post &#8211;Not!  Yes!"},"content":{"rendered":"<table id=\"textEdit\" border=\"0\" width=\"100%\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"5\" bgcolor=\"#a20000\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td align=\"left\" width=\"99%\">\n<div><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/origin.ih.constantcontact.com\/fs117\/1100893624300\/img\/154.jpg\" alt=\"Debra at Pescadero Tree Farm\" width=\"250\" height=\"251\" name=\"ACCOUNT.IMAGE.154\" border=\"0\" hspace=\"5\" vspace=\"5\" \/><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<td align=\"left\" width=\"1%\"><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td colspan=\"2\" align=\"left\">Dear friends,\u00a0I don&#8217;t know how your month has gone but I know for me it&#8217;s been a mixture of moments of feeling super overwhelmed with not having enough time to do all that I&#8217;d like to do for the holidays and also many moments of happiness and joyful connection. When I practice the lyrics to the song, &#8220;It&#8217;s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year&#8221;, I sometimes jokingly exclaim to myself, &#8220;Not!&#8221; and at other times say, &#8220;Yes! It certainly is!<br \/>\nWhat are the true gifts of the season? For me they are spending time with some of the sweet people I have in my life, they are spending time with friends and loved ones and enjoying the sights, tastes and sounds of a magical time of year in a myriad of ways:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Enjoying an afternoon holiday party where there is laughter and good humor over a cup of eggnog, cookies and savory treats.<\/li>\n<li>Lighting a candle and taking a few moments to sit and quietly reflect on the all the wonderful performances I&#8217;ve been a part of this year.<\/li>\n<li>Sitting around the dining room table with good friends sharing dreams and stories with hot soup, bread and cheese on a rainy evening.<\/li>\n<li>Spending an afternoon at a tree farm in Pescadero with old friends making holiday wreathes, picnicking, roasting marshmallows, and getting on a wooden swing hung from giant Eucalyptus trees and swinging up to see the view of the Pacific Ocean.<\/li>\n<li>Enjoying a festive night at the Sausalito Cruising Club with many of my dear friends in the audience. Feeling the barge brim with holiday cheer.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>(marshmallows roasting on an open fire&#8230;)<\/p>\n<div><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/origin.ih.constantcontact.com\/fs117\/1100893624300\/img\/153.jpg\" alt=\"roasting marshmallows\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" name=\"ACCOUNT.IMAGE.153\" border=\"0\" vspace=\"5\" \/><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>What, to you, are the true gifts of this season? As I consider this question, I realize that for me, the season&#8217;s gifts are not about the striving for perfection in baking or decorations, it is mostly about time connecting with new or old friends and family. So as I go into the final stretch of 2012, I think I&#8217;m going to just lighten up on my unrealistic expectations for what I think I need to do, or would like to do and focus on enjoying the times I have with the people I care about and the rest will fall into place on its own, it always does.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear friends,\u00a0I don&#8217;t know how your month has gone but I know for me it&#8217;s been a mixture of moments of feeling super overwhelmed with not having enough time to do all that I&#8217;d like to do for the holidays and also many moments of happiness and joyful connection. When I practice the lyrics to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-892","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/892","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=892"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/892\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1686,"href":"https:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/892\/revisions\/1686"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=892"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=892"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debramugnani.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=892"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}